ILIs and Attachment Style

[Bethanyclaire]

IPs/EJs attached, EPs/IJs detached. I had an ILI friend and we sort of fell out. It’s true what the kindred descriptions say, as soon as something was wrong it felt really rubbish to even think about her. She’s gay btw, and has a lot more physical presence than me. We fell out because of long term issues. But I did feel very attached to her..strange how attached you can feel to a friend..but not good once you feel resentment towards them. I don’t know if some people are to destined to have difficulties with friendships throughout life :/ It’s why I like contrary- you don’t have to get to close..that has its downsides but also you don’t have to feel stuck to them.