How close am I to them? What is their childhood like? Are they stressed right now? Are they being genuine? What have I don’t to effect them? What do they like? What do they dislike? What environment do they need? How can I cheer them up? Do I feel comfortable around them? Do I make them comfortable? Do they like me? Is it better to keep distance? Intentions? Plans? What do they Need? Boundaries? Etc etc etc…