I genuinely considered it until someone mentioned that once you monetize a relationship it's hard to go back to doing normal relationships without expecting some sort of end to it.Originally Posted by Eudaimonia
I genuinely considered it until someone mentioned that once you monetize a relationship it's hard to go back to doing normal relationships without expecting some sort of end to it.
Most of me thinks I wouldn't do it... but if I did I'd just go full femboi and find a rich SLE or LIE man to satisfy in exchange for money and drugs. Honestly I could probably even handle an LSE in this type of relationship since it doesn't have to be deep or "real". I think I could do that for awhile as long as he treated me okay
“Things always seem fairer when we look back at them, and it is out of that inaccessible tower of the past that Longing leans and beckons.”
— James Russell Lowell猫が生き甲斐
I agree with this. I feel like I would get into a relationship and think that I know what I'm getting into and then get mad that they don't really love me and just see me as a piece of meat lol.
The Barnum or Forer effect is the tendency for people to judge that general, universally valid statements about personality are actually specific descriptions of their own personalities. A "universally valid" statement is one that is true of everyone—or, more likely, nearly everyone. It is not known why people tend to make such misjudgments, but the effect has been experimentally reproduced.
The psychologist Paul Meehl named this fallacy "the P.T. Barnum effect" because Barnum built his circus and dime museum on the principle of having something for everyone. It is also called "the Forer effect" after its discoverer, the psychologist Bertram R. Forer, who modestly dubbed it "the fallacy of personal validation".
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