Originally Posted by
Adam Strange
I'm reposting this from the "thoughts on ESI-LIE Duality" thread, because it also relates to my misadventures in dating.
I've been thinking about my relationships with ESI Duals recently. I know at least 19 ESIs; 8 females and 11 males. Some of those males are very good friends, and some are acquaintances. Some of the women I have dated with serious intentions, and some are just women whom I know.
One of my early experiences with a male ESI friend somehow went wrong and we didn't talk for many years, and then I ran into him in a Kroger store and it was like we were still best buddies.
He seems somehow to be similar to the female ESI that I was dating recently. We started getting close, then she pulled back and I said "Call me when you want to go out again" and she hasn't called me.
On the other hand, I have a male and a female ESI in my life right now who are good friends and I don't see that ever changing.
What the hell is the difference? Is it something I might be able to see before I invest a couple years in a relationship? I think that other people might be able to tell the difference right away, but for some reason, I can't.
The problem, for certain, isn't related to Duality, because that part of the equation is good in all cases.