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Lady Lunacik, I see what you are saying, and I agree.
I met my first LSI GF at work. I met my ex-wife at an Astronomy club meeting. (After we were married, she never attended another meeting.) I met the second LSI at an Astronomy club meeting. I met the most compatible ESI (AS) after seeing her artwork in an art gallery while I was buying art (shared interest).
All the other ESIs I met by just walking around, and it seems that it is too easy for both of us to just keep on walking.
So, now my main interest is in running a business for profit, stacking up dollars, and taking trips to foreign countries in search of adventure. I think I’ve met exactly zero female ESIs engaged in any of these activities.
I’ve met a few male ESIs doing these things, but no females.
There is an interesting ESI in, once again, the Astronomy club, but she’s happily married.
IDK. I feel like I’m just whining. Maybe the real problem is that I’m just too old and too set in my bachelor ways.
Let me just say, it gets harder to make friends as you get older. People become less willing to compromise, and even Dual relationships require compromise.