Types You Hate That Aren't Your Conflictor.

[chriscorey]

Lol I can see how an LSI can be annoying. You're sister is ESI? How has having a sibling who is your conflictor affected how you interact with Fi types?

I do okay with most Fi types or I know how to get along with them anyway. I avoid certain topics or I start changing the subject. When I was younger, I was pretty argumentative, but as I matured, I mellowed out.

I've become somewhat hand-shy around my ESI sister and her LSI husband. If I talk, I can irritate them. They're like a small Ne hating gang. They get loud when they don't agree with me, and I don't debate with people if they yell at me. I haven't experienced this with other LSI or ESI. Maybe I'm not around them enough to become irritating? I had one ESI boss I couldn't get along with, but I think she was deranged.

I guess you could say because of my ESI sister I remain more neutral around Fi types. Seems to work.

[EUDAEMONIUM]

I've become somewhat hand-shy around my ESI sister and her LSI husband. If I talk, I can irritate them. They're like a small Ne hating gang. They get loud when they don't agree with me, and I don't debate with people if they yell at me.

This guy yells at you? What does your sister do when this is happening?

[chriscorey]

This guy yells at you? What does your sister do when this is happening?

They both get loud with me. It's hard to get any kind of shift in perspective from them. They don't agree, and apparently the volume in their voice wins the topic at hand.

[EUDAEMONIUM]

They both get loud with me. It's hard to get any kind of shift in perspective from them. They don't agree, and apparently the volume in their voice wins the topic at hand.

I don't think they should be yelling and screaming at you if they disagree, especially since this is your family. But that's just my opinion. Like you, I know both of these types well, they really do not like Ne lol, but that's really not an excuse.

[lkdhf qkb]

People I disliked had those types : LSE, SLI, LSI, LIE, ESI, SLE, IEI, ILE, LII, SEE, and some annoying IEEs or megalomaniac EIEs. I don't think type was the reason I disliked them, but it can be an aggravating factor.

[EUDAEMONIUM]

Hate is too strong a word. I have had extreme difficulty working or seeing eye-to-eye with ILE. It's been a challenge working with IEI, ILI and SLE in that order - but not impossible. SEEs seemed to bob and weave a lot but we could usually come to an agreement.

a.k.a. I/O

What type are you? I always figured you were an LII...

People I disliked had those types : LSE, SLI, LSI, LIE, ESI, SLE, IEI, ILE, LII, SEE, and some annoying IEEs or megalomaniac EIEs. I don't think type was the reason I disliked them, but it can be an aggravating factor.

But I didn't ask who you disliked I want to know who you HATE. Let the hatred flow through you.

[lkdhf qkb]

But I didn't ask who you disliked I want to know who you HATE. Let the hatred flow through you.

I can read. There are people whose guts I hated, but as I said, type was probably irrelevant or they were just toxic or were incompatible with me. This thread stays interesting as long as people who post on here describe what behaviour they hated, not when it becomes a public "type lynching" thread for badmouthing haters. Sorry to disappoint you man, but i value my emotional peace.

 

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[EUDAEMONIUM]

I can read. There are people whose guts I hated, but as I said, type was probably irrelavant or they were just toxic or were incompatible with me. This thread stays interesting as long as people who post on here describe what behaviour they hated, not when it becomes a public "type lynching" thread for badmouthing haters. Sorry to disappoint you man, but i value my emotional peace.

lol thank you for fully proving my point made earlier in the thread and taking this way too seriously

[Rebelondeck]

What type are you? I always figured you were an LII...

Yes, I am and here's my explanation of what may be going on: http://www.socionics.com/articles/thestrength.html

a.k.a. I/O