Quote Originally Posted by Stray Cat View Post
It's a lie, especially when the "bad" person's behavior never changed.
Ni leads live in the sands of time, watching, not often aware of what they can do. It's the victim thing, stuff happens and they don't think about fighting it, unless a fight is happening. They don't think of acting, so they react.
There's a part of me that hoped if I became good enough, things and people would become good magicaly, doesn't work, lol. That gets better once they hold people to some personal standards, Ti. Ni(or Si) observes things, Fe judges the external situation, then this is held to standards through introverted judgement which can take a long time to build, only after are actions taken.
Those lies are symptoms that something isn't making its way yet.
I think talking about lying can shake things up and help along the way, tho it requires the will to grow to be present in the person. Being a bull in a china shop is probably a plus here. "Probably" because I haven't seen it, I just think it makes sense.