Originally Posted by
MissDucki
First, I have been guilty of this. Especially the random takes that we’re completely imagined. I like to think it’s just cause of the influence from the PI function is why we may perceive these things wrong and not are always objective in this aspect.
I will let you know on a little secret, I didn’t drink for a very long time. Part of the reason other then acholhism in my family and often people with social anxiety tend to develop a drinking addiction more, was that I really afraid that people were actually going to hear what I REALLY think and let that slip. Mind you, it’s very rare that I have legitimate negative views or perceptions of anyone. But I have my own hot takes and got my own little black box that I reallllllly don’t want people to hear. Thankfully, I can still keep that in check when drunk, but I do spill a bit more with less of a filter. If you really want to get what a Fe creative things, you have to get direct and detailed. The more direct someone is with me, the more likely I spill or at least, spill a little bit. I can’t run……but you gotta box them in and can’t escape! Part of the reason ILE kinda scare me in this region LOL
I don’t understand that personally, I find it strange that people will go an talk with people they dislike. If I dislike someone, I don’t go out of my way. I have two reasons why people may do that, some people do that cause they would rather keep the peace so they will be unassuming in their dislike or they like to play the social game and keep friends close but enemies closer kind of thing.