Fe creatives & lying

[Stray Cat]

They care more for the group mood than they do for their own values. Fe vs Fi.

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There is always a reason, but we’re not going to admit that LOL

Do I like to lie, hell no. I would rather be honest and I try to be as honest as I can. But sometimes when you got your own logic and convictions pulling you one way and then the social atmosphere pulling you in the other to keep it positive, sometimes you lie to keep freaking sane. If you start telling the truth, you are expecting a lot more chaos then you wish and that’s not something I want to deal with. „Don't rock the boat, don’t rock the boat Baby~“

People react bad to the truth a lot more then you think. I’ve learned to shut up on that regards and would rather keep the peace then fight someone in regards to their little bubble. Life can be a lot less stressful when you tell people what they want then what you actually want and think lol People tend to leave you alone more in regards to that.

There was nothing I wanted to hear, honestly. My opinion is this person is wishy washy through overindulgence of Fe. She'll give a random take then behave contrary to that original take. These were random takes nobody asked fer for. They were social expectations she completely imagined

It be interesting to hear what those reasons are actually. Would you like a beer to lower those inhibitions?

Edit:. For reference, this Fe-creative says she dislikes this old lady, then chats her up like some sorta bff otherwise

[MissDucki]

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There was nothing I wanted to hear, honestly. My opinion is this person is wishy washy through overindulgence of Fe. She'll give a random take then behave contrary to that original take. These were random takes nobody asked fer for. They were social expectations she completely imagined

It be interesting to hear what those reasons are actually. Would you like a beer to lower those inhibitions?

Edit:. For reference, this Fe-creative says she dislikes this old lady, then chats her up like some sorta bff otherwise

First, I have been guilty of this. Especially the random takes that we’re completely imagined. I like to think it’s just cause of the influence from the PI function is why we may perceive these things wrong and not are always objective in this aspect.

I will let you know on a little secret, I didn’t drink for a very long time. Part of the reason other then acholhism in my family and often people with social anxiety tend to develop a drinking addiction more, was that I really afraid that people were actually going to hear what I REALLY think and let that slip. Mind you, it’s very rare that I have legitimate negative views or perceptions of anyone. But I have my own hot takes and got my own little black box that I reallllllly don’t want people to hear. Thankfully, I can still keep that in check when drunk, but I do spill a bit more with less of a filter. If you really want to get what a Fe creative things, you have to get direct and detailed. The more direct someone is with me, the more likely I spill or at least, spill a little bit. I can’t run……but you gotta box them in and can’t escape! Part of the reason ILE kinda scare me in this region LOL

I don’t understand that personally, I find it strange that people will go an talk with people they dislike. If I dislike someone, I don’t go out of my way. I have two reasons why people may do that, some people do that cause they would rather keep the peace so they will be unassuming in their dislike or they like to play the social game and keep friends close but enemies closer kind of thing.

[Stray Cat]

First, I have been guilty of this. Especially the random takes that we’re completely imagined. I like to think it’s just cause of the influence from the PI function is why we may perceive these things wrong and not are always objective in this aspect.

I will let you know on a little secret, I didn’t drink for a very long time. Part of the reason other then acholhism in my family and often people with social anxiety tend to develop a drinking addiction more, was that I really afraid that people were actually going to hear what I REALLY think and let that slip. Mind you, it’s very rare that I have legitimate negative views or perceptions of anyone. But I have my own hot takes and got my own little black box that I reallllllly don’t want people to hear. Thankfully, I can still keep that in check when drunk, but I do spill a bit more with less of a filter. If you really want to get what a Fe creative things, you have to get direct and detailed. The more direct someone is with me, the more likely I spill or at least, spill a little bit. I can’t run……but you gotta box them in and can’t escape! Part of the reason ILE kinda scare me in this region LOL

I don’t understand that personally, I find it strange that people will go an talk with people they dislike. If I dislike someone, I don’t go out of my way. I have two reasons why people may do that, some people do that cause they would rather keep the peace so they will be unassuming in their dislike or they like to play the social game and keep friends close but enemies closer kind of thing.

Appreciate the take. Seems you understand yourself & social graces well.

I never ask one person their opinion on another. It isn't a fair question to ask cause relationships aren't cut & dry or mechanical. People can interact with whomever they like for whatever reason.

Wishy-washiness & absolute social dishonesty grinds my gears

[AWellArmedCat]

For reference, this Fe-creative says she dislikes this old lady, then chats her up like some sorta bff otherwise

This isn't strange to me at all. I very often chat up people I dislike more than those I like in an effort to try and put myself above the conflict. The conflict is likely just temporary, so I do my best to steer things more towards good relations. I don't see how doing this is weird at all. They're just a person I don't get along with yet​