I mean yeah tbh I'd rather date a shy soft IEI that was cutely honest about his vulnerabilities than a SLE douche that tried to cover them up. ((but I mean of course ideally I'd prefer a SLE that was healthy and balanced.)) It's much more annoying to me when a ILE or SLE lacks confidence for some reason...

IEIs are rawly honest about our vulnerabilities in a way that I like. To other people it's 'playing victim' and it annoys them- like a lot of Te-ego women who look & act like they are fisherman's wives don't seem to like it?