Quote Originally Posted by SlytherinPower View Post
irl do SEEs actually come off as being "serious" like the quadra descriptions depict?
If anyone cared to listen to what they wanted and desired out of life, assuming a lack of other psychological issues like trauma or attachment deficiencies (a key caveat that matters more than this theoretical structure), yes. The SEE is quite serious about their passions and desires, but is usually at a loss as to how to best attain/realize them in what I can only call a "rational" sense. They value freedom, but if you value that above what may be some necessary regimentation or limits you'll encounter frustration.

This may be a key reason ILI's are their dual relation. You want to achieve/attain X? We can easily tell you how, but you may not (hell probably will not) like it. It likely won't make you many friends, and it'll probably piss off several members within your social circle and cost you friends (possibly even your bestie)... But it'll get you X nigh on guaranteed. How might that harsh and direct method best be mollified and made into a plan that doesn't suffer those major social downsides if not in whole than at least in part? Well, that's where your perspective would come in .