Originally Posted by
crazymaisy
It's wearying to be around, good thing I can float somewhere else in my head easily.
It's enough with him and my 4 kids being in my life, anymore people, I'd implode.
Extroverts call everyone "friend", but friend is special. Acquaintances is what they have. Close and Far and everything in-between, Friend can apply to select quality acquaintances. I know people, they don't even qualify as acquaintances, for me, but hubby would call them friends. It's all mystery how that SeFi works in their heads with so many people, but I see it,
...and also the very horrible day after being very, very bad, the regret, the agony, "oh just stand up, and deal with it!" feeling I have watching him. Today is such a day. My SEE had too much to drink and made an ass of himself and can't remember last night at all. I told him enough about it, and he is so regretful, said "this is it" and I said "it better be since you are not getting any younger, just clean up your act and live longer please. No more deep dives, they are dangerous!"
He's reformed for now. Yes, my fingers are crossed and seeing is believing.
He doesn't think he's an alcoholic, I'd say he sure is close if not one. I told him AA would be helpful, but he says he'll do it for awhile, meaning not drink for a month or so.
He can't commit for anything except what he wants, yep, don't tell him what the rules are. Well no, but I will be bit more rule-y with him, he really needs it.
So what do SEE women get like? Oh the drama is all I can imagine.