@ everyone
Maybe subtypes really matter here.
Both of my parents are Si-subtype. LSE-Si and ESE-Si.
If they were LSE-Te and ESE-Fe it would have been really tough I think.

And they're both caregivers.
My friends LSI-ESI (they just celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary by the way) they're both agressors.

Matching subtypes and temperament, maybe.

Anyway, I know I couldn't date an EIE-Fe, but I like EIE-Ni! Never dated one, but one of my close friends at uni she's an EIE-Ni.