I went on a few dates with an eii and it didn't really mesh, he was nice and aimed to please I guess? I don't remember exactly how infantile was supposed to actually work lol. But I remember feeling like ho hum it isn't moving much better poke it with a stick. And I would playfully suggest uh,,I won't tmi but slightly disgusting things. Not because I really wanted them but because I thought he was holding a stiff frame. I wonder if that's why he suddenly broke it off lol