You're right. Posting a vid absolutely would show the difference. Unfortunately I don't have to prove shit to you. Doing that would just be ego. Momentary pleasure. That's it
Internet persona is just a phrase. It's not what one does but why they do it. If I can, I use each function as is necessary. Otherwise I won't say shit
Also, I don't think you have to "prove" anything, but you yourself said that you are very different on the forums than in real life. Would be interesting, in the name of socionics, to understand this difference.
It would be an interesting case study if I posted a video. Even if I did, people would still idiotically debate me being SLE. It would be better to spend that energy on folk who actually come here for advice/help.
I'm actually Dr. Gulenko.
But I refuse to reveal my identity because that would be ego, and ego is not who I truly am.
The reason I ask is that while I do respond well and I am attracted to both ILE-Ne and ILE-Ti, ILE-Ne are way too much for me. Especially in a romantic sense. I find ILE-Ne way too much up in the clouds and while I know my Si is strong, It is not strong enough to ground an ILE-Ne as an SEI-Fe individual. That, and I am already neurotic af as it is and I can't have more, especially as a type 6 lol.
People have mentioned that ILE-Ti are more grounded and that is something I would appreciate as a SEI-Fe. I would like to think that IEI-Fe would come across a little more grounded and logical with their Ni in comparison to IEI-Ni. I am curious if you would respond better with an IEI-Fe and the Ni will be strong but not in the fore front. Plus, logical leads seem to lead with logic but come from a place of caring. Ethical leads seem to lead with feeling but try to have a logical/consistent reasoning behind it. Both logical and ethical keep that aspect balanced and I think it would be unbalanced if you threw in an irrational leading function with the rational functions if you get my drift. You may find that IEI-Fe may be an bit better as an irrational-rational SLE.
IEI-Fe is a lot more mobile, protective, and proactive about reaching tangible goals than IEI-Ni, from what I’ve seen.
They're cool but, at their core, prefer their idealism. It's better they walk their own path, experience their own successes or make their own mistakes. I personally prefer not grounding such free spirits, tbh
Your point is valid, though. Thanks
Most of the time when people say they don't prefer their duals is because they're mistyped. That's the core of socionics, subtypes are almost always just a cop-out.
I used to have a similar take on if as yourself but, imo, it's a rigid approach. I don't have to "think" I'm SLE. I also don't subscribe to tribalism either
Tribalism is at the core of beta, like it or not. However the point I'm making is that yes, people are individuals and don't correspond fully to archetypes (or stereotypes), and people are much more than their type But when nothing seems to fit then you would start to question how a typing was arrived at.
It's not all just a theory, a lot of it actually works in practice as I've seen it, and it doesn't need to be overcomplicated. Types are best fit but at some point the fit is just too flimsy and needs to be re-evaluated.
You still say nothing seems to fit based on what you read from me online. What I write here is one small part of the totality of who I am and what I do . Then again, continue to over analyze & overindulge Ti.
Besides, I use most of that energy is directed toward animal activism where my force is actually necessary, required & put to good ass use.
Yeah, also that thing about animal activism and nurturing, isn't that caregiving to the max as we're in a thread talking about erotic attitudes?
Well dude, do you value Ti or do you not? It's funny you say I overindulge in it if you're supposedly the Ti subtype. It's a forum for socionics, and on this particular one it's par for the course that everyone's type is going to be discussed.You still say nothing seems to fit based on what you read from me online. What I write here is one small part of the totality of who I am and what I do . Then again, continue to over analyze & overindulge Ti.
You have to operate on the information that's available, so far nothing you say seems to fit your type which is somewhat relevant when discussing things from the pov of a certain type.
Notice I haven't once typed you or accused you of being another type. Whatever you've typed yourself as, is your business. Frankly, I'm not gonna spend 2 seconds typing some motherfucker on the internet
The more one analyzes, the more illogical one becomes. You can't type me because you've never watched me. But I won't let you watch me, because that's ego and selfish.
Self types as low Fi/Fe. Caters posts to the online environment for the purposes of empathy and communication.
You don't know the REAL ME. I'm real offline. Fake online but have no egotistical desire to prove anything.
But it's amusing, and part of what makes this forum so entertaining at times. You know, it's the creative Ti that likes to be used leisurely during one's free time.Use your intelligence for something better or more worthwhile than analyzing my type
Who needs psychedelic drugs when I can just as easily experience ego death on the socionics forum
Online is fantasy, but you should take my threads seriously
I used to be like you, man. That shit got boring. Its based on ego & kinda limits you to a box cognitively. It's your life, though dude. Do what you want
This is a community, not a place to indulge or boost my fragile ego, even though I use a fake persona.
Speaking of fake persona, I used to be like you, man.
A real identity,
But that shit got boring. Its based on ego & kinda limits you to a box cognitively so now I just cosplay and mislead / manipulate.
Types aren't real, just your imagination.
But take my threads seriously anyway.
I agree with Northstar here as usual. SLE str8 man dual. <3 @Northstar himself was so goddamn boring to me at first ((sorry bud!)) but then I'm like 'hmm wow yeah' the more he posts. Duality tends to work that way- expecting fireworks right off the gate , probably doesn't work so much like that.
You said IEI's fantasy worlds annoyed you before or something or how we tend to just sit around and don't do anything- most SLE I know, that intrigued and mystified them instead of bothered them ((and they liked playing along with me for the most part)) - and were more drawn into it. It also gave them a victim sub to approach.
Wanting to play some social worker or 'constructive helper' person with another person is almost always disgustingly Delta. Especially if you're actually all serious and authoritative with it. It's very Ne + Fi valuing. ((and Te + Si too really))
Some people say that SLEs are junkyard dogs.
Some people say that SLEs are gentlemen thinkers.
All I know is that when I told people here that I was an e8w7, no one believed me because I seemed too "nice".
Well, fuck off.
Ughhhh, god, i just got done trying to figure out what type midnightwilderness was, can we please move from stray cat and just get back to the sex stuff or whatever this thread was about.