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    Default Duality IRL Phone Call (Delta)

    Have been in a glorious partnership with a LSE man who is 10x more mature than me, has a completely different cultural background, and we struggle with language barrier 12% of the time. It's been almost one year and I think I can confirm duality under certain conditions??

    I'm 27 almost 28. He is 29 going on 30. Our first "loves" were both our supervisors- for him ILI: 2 years with no sex and only financial support (woah) and for self SEE: 3 years with cheating, manipulation, physical/ psychological no-gos~

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    I have been watching, observing, reading, and learning from this website for a long ass time. Theory has been a very powerful tool IME, however, the experience of building a relationship with him has gradually changed my life for the better.

    The past 4 years have been huge for growth as well as heartache. I met this man when I had pretty much given up on finding a compatible person... also during the early part of the pandemic... we were both down and out.

    In this call, I shared the gladiator sentiment with him because I found it to be true in the moment. He said, "Dynamic duo would be much better". It's certainly not the most thrilling conversation, but it is a real conversation.

    PS. tried to cut out most of the Korean, but
    "아니, 아니" (AH-ni AH-ni) means "no, no"
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    Thanks for posting sojourn, you guys sound close and comfortable with each other.

    I guess I wouldn’t personally feel comfortable posting a phone call, but this is valuable info indeed.

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