What's the solution to atomization?

[SGF]

Why do men hate women these days?.

She:

>kids are parasites
>I want a threesome
>lets drink ourselves stupid and party!
>I come from a fucked up family, no positive role models, divorced
>casual sex with multiple partners and open relationship
>I hate mainstream religion, but totally down for new-age mysticism & drugs
>can't hold all these mental problems & baggage
>my body is a burden
>I read smut.. so much smut
>love me the way I am! (is "large", mentally unstable, generally unhealthy and in debt)
>hair the color of poisonous mushrooms signaling danger
>I have 1-3 kids from previous relationships

Me:



Shits fucked up when you'd rather be alone or get a dog, than be in a relationship.
Thats like treading volcel territory.. scary stuff.

[ashlesha]

She:

>kids are parasites
>I want a threesome
>lets drink ourselves stupid and party!
>I come from a fucked up family, no positive role models, divorced
>casual sex with multiple partners and open relationship
>I hate mainstream religion, but totally down for new-age mysticism & drugs
>can't hold all these mental problems & baggage
>my body is a burden
>I read smut.. so much smut
>love me the way I am! (is "large", mentally unstable, generally unhealthy and in debt)
>hair the color of poisonous mushrooms signaling danger
>I have 1-3 kids from previous relationships

Me:



Shits fucked up when you'd rather be alone or get a dog, than be in a relationship.
Thats like treading volcel territory.. scary stuff.

But this archetype is such a strong meme that it's very common for women to signal that they're the opposite. All the time. Maybe they're lying? Idk. I fit a couple of the things on that list cuz I'm human lol

And somebody needs to stab the motherfucker in that meme. Sorry about the 5 girls on Twitter who said men need to go to therapy more, or whatever

[Aramas]

She:

>kids are parasites
>I want a threesome
>lets drink ourselves stupid and party!
>I come from a fucked up family, no positive role models, divorced
>casual sex with multiple partners and open relationship
>I hate mainstream religion, but totally down for new-age mysticism & drugs
>can't hold all these mental problems & baggage
>my body is a burden
>I read smut.. so much smut
>love me the way I am! (is "large", mentally unstable, generally unhealthy and in debt)
>hair the color of poisonous mushrooms signaling danger
>I have 1-3 kids from previous relationships

Me:



Shits fucked up when you'd rather be alone or get a dog, than be in a relationship.
Thats like treading volcel territory.. scary stuff.

Last pic is kinda scary. Therapists these days are basically thought police.

[SGF]

Last pic is kinda scary. Therapists these days are basically thought police.

They are?

[Aramas]

They are?

Have you ever heard of the DSM? There are so many "illnesses" that basically everyone can be labelled with something.

[SGF]

Have you ever heard of the DSM? There are so many "illnesses" that basically everyone can be labelled with something.

They arbitrarily change definitions, yeah.

[Sol]

Not electronic devices, but individualistic attitude breaks communications.
Due to such attitude people have lesser interest to communicate and do lesser efforts to establish closer and more useful communications. They tend to do surface and short relations.
This egocentric attitude is indoctrinated by mass medias - disorganised people worse protect own interests. While being easier to exist in today society than before as to stay alive in past needed more of direct support from other people.
Among individualism supporting factors of today culture is sex separated from love. It is described as acceptable to have sex without strong feelings and wish to make a marriage pair, with kids, etc. The culture predisposes to have a marriage where people stay on own, not where they are friends which share as most as possible in the life, not where they value interests of each other same as own, have a task of happiness of each other, and see the use for themselves in such relations more than in personally separated ones.

Capitalism is based on individualistic ideology. What is done with the culture is a part of it.
To reduce atomization the society needs collectivistic ideology, where interests of a majority is set above interests of any minorities and individs. Where interests of other human are valued closer to your own interests.

Natural basis for such can be good families, pairs with good love feelings and friendship relations. People would studed there to love and then could use this for others outside of own families. This would help to establish more friendly, closer and wider communications. Would gave more interest to other peoples needs. Could to improve cooperation abbilities, to reduce inner social war which takes resources and makes a harm. Such society is incompatible with egoistic wishes, which dominate in capitalism.