Originally Posted by
Shazaam
btw this is oversharing but when has that ever stopped me before?
I remember I hit it off well with this guy for awhile ((he definitely was an "aggressor" to my" victim" - so that was good)) - but then he started to talk about how he wanted me to wear feminine clothing to turn him on. I immediately noped out of the potentinal relationship as soon as he said that- like I was so turned off of that. Cuz yeah I'm sure it would drive him crazy but it would have the opposite effect with me lol. I don't think I could do it even to make somebody else happy or as some pure sacrifice if I really liked the person - because the idea of feminizing my own body that way just makes me feel so disgusted. No offense to anybody else who feels empowered by that- but for me, it has the opposite effect. Then again that's why I get pissy is there are people who tell me because I can't throw a ball well or I'm not man enough in the straight male army way- I SHOULD be into those things... lol