What does it mean when you can't stop thinking about someone

[Computer Loser]

I can usually explain this type of feeling I have about someone by figuring out their enneagram type (tritype and instinct, sociotype too).

enneagram hmm that's interesting.

I can ‘explain’ my top 4 loves/crushes by doing the above. Can provide more information if you like, but it might be hard to explain.

yes please do share, I'm actually very curious

also there is something called an ‘imago’ which from what I recall is ‘an idealised image’ of the person you would like to be with, I think they are supposed to resemble your mum or dad a bit haha

yes i've heard of this somewhere, sounds slightly incestuous but it would make sense if we grew up with an influential mom/dad that we looked up to. she did have this quality of looking after others (esp. her own mother) that i liked

hmmm i wonder if this person resembles my mom