What does it mean when you can't stop thinking about someone

[Bethanyclaire]

I can usually explain this type of feeling I have about someone by figuring out their enneagram type (tritype and instinct, sociotype too). There are some tritypes or e-types (plus instinct) we will feel a pull towards. They might feel it back sometimes. Also some people have special tritypes (known as balanced). These people can give off a certain alluring balanced vibe I think.

I can ‘explain’ my top 4 loves/crushes by doing the above. Can provide more information if you like, but it might be hard to explain.

also there is something called an ‘imago’ which from what I recall is ‘an idealised image’ of the person you would like to be with, I think they are supposed to resemble your mum or dad a bit haha