Turns out, I think my female friend who I thought was an INFj was actually an ENFp, and I think she may be an enneagram type 7. I'm an enneagram type 4, and an INTj. Would we be compatible? She's not allowed by her parents to date until later, because she has a Muslim dad (and possibly mom) and they want her to study first and she's about to turn 18 and she has to be old enough first in the first place. I'm almost 22.