Its because your beneficiaries want the real Ne, not the malleable, bootleg version of your Ne creative
Your beneficiary also thinks he can help you, and he tries, but fails to throw Te at you because it's his PoLR. Thus it is actually you that is tone-deaf to him.
How ironic.
Thus, he will eventually break free from your Fi-Te chains, and run away from your tyranny to find his dual, where you drop tears in your floating Fi-castle with highwalls, wondering where it all went wrong