I remember one LSE approaching me but then due to lack of Fi it fall flat and she seemed pissed. She found me interesting because I managed to negotiate both of us out from a sticky spot due to one individual being stubborn and her steamroller tendecies didn't work.

I suppose EIE 's build up similarish unattractive Si walls.
So I suppose in personal life it is a lot like building invisible fences while in work/common interests it works.