Instead of assuming Cybel has true, good intentions about you and speaks it from position of... Someone who just has a very
genuine comment about your behavior you see it as attack/insult/attempt on belittling and idk, 'removing you from your position and see you as childish/'not worth it'' (that is being dismissive)
Unless you /
actually are serious/ underneath and only pose it as joking, then I'm sure this kind of commentary hurts you
(the 'lack of Fi'
was not serious (come on, spanking?), but this comment above is; unlike others, I treat you for what I see/what is given and very seriously
)
(also no, being 'like a sociopath' is not a good thing from Fi standpoint lol)