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It's simply so low of a priority that other higher-priority activities always seem to take precedence - like for example, washing the windows.
I posted the following on agendas:
This is also described as low energy function needing for external recharge.
I have come across very lethargic LIE's for instance yet they might fancy pulling potatoes out of field while they speak. EIE's can be like that as well.
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And yes she had questions like that "what"s a motherboard".
It never annoyed me tho', I just took it up as some task being patient with her lol, and yes some people thought at first that she was stupid but I never saw it that way lol
Thinking about all this, I think in worse periods I do ask a lot about emotional stuff myself, and otherwise I ignore it alot. That's why I need to engage with it so much sometimes then to make up for it. The same is true of other emotional stuff like, doing emotional release, expression, socialising with emotional involvement ... Def really unbalanced af
Frankly I was so unbalanced with it for a while that I didn't even want to consider Fe HA like, it seemed like really bad news for me to type as that, because it was like admitting to all my issues in that area.
(Yeh and I should get more balanced in that area)
Btw the IEI I was thinking of, she definitely was excessive with this compared to other IEIs but I really didn't mind, just other people did here and there
But the point is, it doesn't seem like it's some law of nature to have to ask so much, just for some reason she was extra unbalanced there. Like I was with Fe too lol so we fit well together lol
About the suggestive I dunno exactly... I can tell you if I explicitly ask for "Ni info" I always get acutely aware of it. Because it's kinda unusual for me. It's the emotional stuff I can ask or read about (in psychology etc) endlessly about if I'm in a bad place and if I get uninhibited enough to ask/face the issues to read up on them. Bc otherwise I really just ignore all of it lol.So is this an example of not taking the HA that seriously and having unbalanced usage?
Also, how is this linked to the PoLR? For the PoLR we try to conceal our deficiency as much as possible and are very serious about it, but not so for the HA. even though the HA is used as an overcompensation for the PoLR?
As for the suggestive, one doesn't really "ask" for suggestive info, right? They don't even realize their need for it and therefore don't know to do so, I think?
You ask about the link to PoLR, I feel like I ask about or check out or analyse so much emotional info because I'm trying to cover for my inability to see the indirect feely stuff. It's like it makes me feel like I use my logic (Ti or whatever) to examine that stuff from every possible aspect like I try to orchestrate some attack on it but it's for the purpose of navigating it... But again I do this only if I'm in a bad enough place for it but then it gets obsessive.
I mean idk, your Ti is 2 dimensional not one dimensional like your Se and Te is supposed to be so you can still 'use Ti yourself' as much as you ask for it, you just use it in mediocre/grade C ways and enjoy it when people are more sophisticated and uppity refined/3 or 4 dimensional with it.
Using Ti is how IEIs often navigate 'the real world' in physical, tangible ways (and also how we ironically can totally pwn somebody in a logical or political debate as well!) otherwise we really would just be emotional & useless romantic soup on the ground. =D I think of the 2D functions as you kinda progress through something rationally when you use them- and you can definitely use Ti and Si better than Te and Se.
The 2D functions are all kinda underrated in my view. People don't talk about them or understand them as much or something because they aren't strong/overpowering like your 3D and 4D functions but also aren't laughably weak like your 1D PoLR/dual-seeking functions. They are often what gets you through the day, in an understated sense without you really thinking about it much. It's really nice actually IME.
((I think some people treat the 2D functions as if they were more closer to 1D and I think that's a huge mistake to do that.))