I'd honestly say though, EIE's are quite the ones to play games with you. My best friend is a lesbian SLI, and her ex is EIE, and the EIE got her through her worst times ever, took advantage of her caregiving ways and such, basically traumatized her quite a lot. Not to be a dick and shit on your plate, but it's a nice thing to keep in mind, all in all, you do you and stick it in, buddy.
EIE-Fe Creative 7w8 748 Sx/So VELF
Exactly. It's common for Ne suggestives to want to idealize things, mostly if they're Fi mobilising, but that's when my type comes in to throw the Ne knowledge, I tend to help my SLI bestie with these things a lot, she doesn't take most of my advice though, and ends up getting in shit situations that hurt her, but oh well, not my fault if people have masochistic tendencies.
Well I'll certainly admit that I tend to idealize and tend towards extreme optimism in things going well in my favor, when I'm not feeling tired and grumpy at least lol Then I'm just as pessimistic as your stereotypical ILI. But yeah, not so much masochism as unfounded optimism.
It's fine for you to feel happy and optimistic, but always try to stay grounded to what you know, or else you'll get your ass kicked by destiny, which would suck, because fuck Ni.
I tell you this as someone who likes making the same mistakes over and over again but what better than a wrong-doer to give advice?
Maybe OP is LSI .. he is 6w5. Initially I considered SLI fer myself .. ye never know.
Plus in my experience its quite fucking rare as an ST to actually have any feels other than indifference or mere curiosity for other ppl outside of maybe family and long time friends.. so just fucking go for it and if it don't work out, plenty of women out there to screw with OP's life :>.
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