I think with enneagram the first type that speaks to you is most often your true type. I immediately connected to enneagram 7 even when I was deeply depressed and not acting like a typical 7, I guess. I think I considered 7w8 too before but 7w6 is a better fit, I’m too pussy for that 8 wing.
6 wing makes me wanna be buddy buddy with people unless they really do me wrong enough to eliminate that option. It makes me more clingy and anxiety prone than a 7w8 could ever be too I suppose. I would erase my wing if I had the choice.
I mean, if I really am a 7. Don’t hesitate to debate it.