Which tritype would you like to date/befriend..which enneagram are you drawn to?

[bethanyrose]

I’d like to meet a 749..again..(with 7 as main enneagram). I like 7s a lot.

[Beautiful sky]

I am drawn to 8s and 1s I like firm and resolute people @DirectorAbbie

She’s my cousin’s twin

[DirectorAbbie]

1: I like people who have 1 in their tritype.
2: People who are 2s can get annoying, though they're well-meaning.
3: I don't know many 3s. I guess they're okay.
4: I like being around healthy 4s. Unhealthy 4s not so much. That's probably true of every type, but I seem to like 4s more than others do.
5: Kinda boring, but better if they're 4 wings.
6: Same as for 4s. I like 6s.
7. They're okay, but they seem to be the most popular, and I don't see the appeal. They can be annoying.
8. I don't like being around them. It's fine to have 8 in one's tritype though.
9. They're fine.

[bethanyrose]

In her article this lady says we have an enneagram dual it’s funny I do seem to be the enneagram dual of a lot of my mates..(after figuring out their tritypes) and I like 7s and they are supposed to be mine. I dunno how she figures it out but it’s interesting. https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/typev...gram-dual/amp/

she also says we get on with people who we have a similar tritype too..(possibly causing annoying crushes lol)

[bethanyrose]

I am drawn to 8s and 1s I like firm and resolute people @DirectorAbbie

She’s my cousin’s twin

do you mean they are similar? I am starting to pick up on people’s tritypes..it’s funny noticing the similarities between people (who are totally different socionics types) I mean I may have picked up on this stuff without personality type knowledge but I doubt as much

[DirectorAbbie]

In her article this lady says we have an enneagram dual it’s funny I do seem to be the enneagram dual of a lot of my mates..(after figuring out their tritypes) and I like 7s and they are supposed to be mine. I dunno how she figures it out but it’s interesting. https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/typev...gram-dual/amp/

she also says we get on with people who we have a similar tritype too..(possibly causing annoying crushes lol)

Interesting, but it looks like the "most beneficial type" list is just a list of [reverse] flow direction.

As a triple-compliant, I got this: "126 (The Supporter): Type 4, 5, 9"
But then: "459 (The Contemplative): Type 3, 7, 8"
So I'm not my duals's dual? That's not dualism then.

There's also "378 (The Mover & Shaker): Type 1, 2, 6" but 3, 7, and 8 are my least-favorite of each triad.

Looks like the recommendation is just to share one bit in tritype.

What I relate to in order:
1, 6, 5, 2, 9, 7, 3, 8, 4

What I prefer in order (afaik):
6, 4, 1, 9, 5, 2, 3, 7, 8

[bethanyrose]

Interesting, but it looks like the "most beneficial type" list is just a list of [reverse] flow direction.

As a triple-compliant, I got this: "126 (The Supporter): Type 4, 5, 9"
But then: "459 (The Contemplative): Type 3, 7, 8"
So I'm not my duals's dual? That's not dualism then.

There's also "378 (The Mover & Shaker): Type 1, 2, 6" but 3, 7, and 8 are my least-favorite of each triad.

Looks like the recommendation is just to share one bit in tritype.

What I relate to in order:
1, 6, 5, 2, 9, 7, 3, 8, 4

What I prefer in order (afaik):
6, 4, 1, 9, 5, 2, 3, 7, 8

I think it's saying that for some types you have more than one enneagram dual so a 126 tritype would like 4s, 5s and 9s. And yes it is not duality because you will not be your dual's dual :s But I think it says that one partner being the dual will create a type of 'social glue'. So for example I have been friends with lots of 268s and have a had 146/126 close friends too and their dual can be 9 (me). They weren't necessarily healthiest friendships.. but I have def had frequent friendships (some very good) with these types.

[Nunki]

Threes and Sevens are the most appealing to me, while I find Fives and Nines to be the least appealing.

[Beautiful sky]

do you mean they are similar? I am starting to pick up on people’s tritypes..it’s funny noticing the similarities between people (who are totally different socionics types) I mean I may have picked up on this stuff without personality type knowledge but I doubt as much

I mean I am just naturally drawn to 1 and 8 although my husband is a 6 so

[SojournInLimbo]

I like 5s, 3s, and 9s.
2s, 6s and 1s stress me out (I feel like it's just a matter of time before I hurt their feelings).
I am neutral towards 4s, 7s, and 8s.

So I tend to like 359, 369, 459, 379, 479, 378, 478.

259s, 469s, 468, 145 can be a mixed bag

136, 146, 126, 268, 269 can cause friction

[bethanyrose]

I mean I am just naturally drawn to 1 and 8 although my husband is a 6 so

oh soz I meant is @DirectorAbbie similar to your cousin?

[bethanyrose]

I like 5s, 3s, and 9s.
2s, 6s and 1s stress me out (I feel like it's just a matter of time before I hurt their feelings).
I am neutral towards 4s, 7s, and 8s.

So I tend to like 359, 369, 459, 379, 479, 378, 478.

259s, 469s, 468, 145 can be a mixed bag

136, 146, 126, 268, 269 can cause friction

Do you feel like you can spot people’s tritypes quite easily? I’m kinda new to it..but finding it interesting to read about

[bethanyrose]

Also interesting if people share their own tritype or enneagram type too so we can see which types might like us!

[SojournInLimbo]

Do you feel like you can spot people’s tritypes quite easily? I’m kinda new to it..but finding it interesting to read about

In some ways, yes. Like some types are more mellow. Some types are intense/reactive. Other types are more rigid.

For example: 459s are passive, introverted, in their own heads. 359s are somewhat similar but you can tell they want recognition/validation while being hidden. 379s are more engaged, adaptable and less head-y. 369s are adaptable but more conscientious. 361s are extra conscientious, perfectionistic, and competency focused.

469s are somewhat easy-going but they are constant questioning how their identity fits into things. 461s are questioners but they are more definitive in their identity and how they want to come off. 351s are questioners and curious but much less identity-focused and more detached and competency-focused.

[bethanyrose]

Interesting! I need to read up on a bit more coz atm I’m just going by my basic enneagram type knowledge (and tritype descriptions but those can be vague)

[bethanyrose]

My friends atm are: (numbers not necessarily in order)

enfp 147
esfp 628
intp 528
Isfp 297
intp 549
esfj 286
infj 259
enfp 279
Isfp 649
istj 126
estp 7..
new cool friend: Entp 548?
friend I don’t get to see much: 794

friend who I’m having trouble with: isfp 693

sis: esfp 728
bro: istj 639

I’d like a 739 friend too maybe..

[SlytherinPower]

7w6 2w3 9w8 so/sx would be nice, I think.

[StarPath]

I think that I am the most drawn to 5s, 7s, and 9s. I like the intellectualism that 5s have. The shared love for learning new things makes it easy to connect with them.

As for 7s and 9s - I like them because they have opposing energies to me. I like the spontaneity that 7s bring to the deliberateness that I have of an enneagram 1. I also like 9s because they are chill. I have this need to be always "on" and productive - their calmness balances this need out.

As for tritypes, I would like to befriend someone with the 792, 952, or 953 tritype.

[SnatchYourWeave]

Any of them is fine. Enneagrams is about facing one’s fears and weaknesses, nothing to do with how people relate to one another.


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[nanashi]

I’d like to meet a 749..again..(with 7 as main enneagram). I like 7s a lot.

https://istj-hedonist.tumblr.com/pos...ne-of-the-most

479

[shotgunfingers]

who cares, any of them is fine as long as I like the person.

[Outlier]

I’d like to meet a 749..again..(with 7 as main enneagram). I like 7s a lot.

Tritype, that's very specific.

[bethanyrose]

Tritype, that's very specific.

Hm I met a 749 estp once..

I dunno I feel like the tritype descriptions (brief though they are) are a bit nicer than general enneagram by itself/sociotype descriptions. I like thinking of people in terms of a tritype atm. A mix of enneagram types appeals..like they have all the possibilities of those types within them.

For some reason it feels like a positive way of thinking about someone. At the same time, it makes me think of people in a simple way-they have 3 out of 9 enneagram types..no one can have more..no one is perfect. If you imagined a perfect friend/partner, what types would you choose? It’d be hard to choose and that makes me appreciate how important variety is in the people we spend our lives with. I like that there are 24 tritypes yet there is so much variety in those types...I like the neatness crossed with variety..

I quite enjoy noticing people’s tritypes, feels like I’m noticing a special energy about them/an energy they share with other people. Sometimes it stands out

[Ania]

I'm curious about 268 but generally not persnickety about enneagram types wrt people I am drawn to. There are certain types I am apprehensive of (as being incompatible) but I might still give them a chance.