Quote Originally Posted by ergot View Post
"real life" intertype relations are tempered more by unavoidables such as a third party, a project you're both working on ;greater things left to chance, spanner in the works

you're less steering the topic of conversation than reading the facial expressions of your conversation partner and bouncing off that to elsewhere accordingly (At least if you're me)
due to that elsewhere/unexpected tangent, you're less able to obfuscate your weak points.

the asking-declaring compatibility inherent in duality shines in this kind of back - n -forth; fluid talk > stilted paragraphs

a raised eyebrow or smirk conveys what you want where emoji can seem excessive
I got interested. What do you know about asking-declaring compatibility, or at least where can I find info about it?
I feel this is important, even though I don't really know how it works.