well now i'm really doubting my type lmfao
if it was just one ex-husband and she tried really hard to make things work and isn't one for a lot of superficial, short relationships, then I'd still say strong Fi since she's devoted to her family. Also re: Se, taste is subjective and can come from a lot of different places.
If you're enjoying talking to her then just keep talking to her lol. If you have natural chemistry, things'll progress. You have more experience now than when you met your ex. You'll spot the warning signs that it won't work out earlier.