Quote Originally Posted by ergot View Post
I'm not into these ways of meeting people anymore, being approached at random/in the wild is preferable. Even if it happens while covid distance-shopping... that's added mystique.

in terms of profiles I've been drawn to in the past :
thumbs up & grin while rockclimbing
goofy outfit and sequin mask, mid-party
windswept hair , motorbike and great ocean road in background

EP (doing)vibes, merry vibes draw me in. comfortable clothing, shirts not buttoned fully
bonus if there's a self deprecating pose or some great outdoors involved.
Agreed @ meeting in the wild preferable, which is a bit hard for me given my hermit status, but, the dating site thing just doesn't work. I always thought it wouldn't, recently gave it a try and yeah, not for me personally. I like he covid mystique thing LOL, I think I've mildly had that fantasy. Can only see half the face, what's behind the mask o.O I actually saw a dude who seemed ExxP who I kind of locked eyes with at the store and I felt curious a bit, heehee