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    I'm sx-first and I've been told I'm a "loose cannon" by an introverted project manager at a university, and I've been told that I'm un-igorable by an SEI that I work with.

    These are just the things that people have told me, or came back to me by way of a third party. I don't know what people are actually thinking about me. I probably don't want to know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    I'm sx-first and I've been told I'm a "loose cannon" by an introverted project manager at a university, and I've been told that I'm un-igorable by an SEI that I work with.

    These are just the things that people have told me, or came back to me by way of a third party. I don't know what people are actually thinking about me. I probably don't want to know.
    That's just type 8.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Samson View Post
    That's just type 8.
    OK, you are probably right about that.

    I don't have any feedback about my desire to merge with a woman I like upon first seeing her that day. Some women like the clarity, some don't.

    I assume they are thinking, "He wants to fuck me, but then we can go shopping and then to the beach." But I don't really know.

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    I'll let you know when I understand what SX is supposed to be. I've heard it described as both 'sexual' and 'intimate;' terms which are used in ways that are mutually exclusive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tommy View Post
    People unilaterally and unjustifiable ascribe me sexual behavior.

    For example once a good friend of mine thought It was impossible for me to be a virgin (when I was). Sometimes ppl go ahead to try to seduce me when our relation is totally occupational. In two occasions I was told that I was seducing men and sexually offending ppl through my avatar pictures taken from pinterest.

    The interesting part is that I don't even feel attracted to most ppl.
    have they told you what gives them that impression?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kalinoche the Child View Post
    have they told you what gives them that impression?
    No. As I said, online some said my avatars (and it were not 2, but 3 ppl). For the ppl irl I have no clue. I've always been introverted and kinda serious. I think its due being sx, honestly.

    edit. I stopped using real humans in my avatrs to discourage ppl from thinking anything I do has sexual connotations.
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    Too much. Entirely too much. But occasionally really sexy.

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    Sx firsts are intense and cool and potentially intimate. (This is idealizing and forgetting the first instinct may be about covering for a weak area--I don't have experience but imagine they may do that push-pull thing which is about avoiding intimacy. It's fun I think for the one doing the push/pull more than for the one being pushed and pulled).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tommy View Post
    No. As I said, online some said my avatars (and it were not 2, but 3 ppl). For the ppl irl I have no clue. I've always been introverted and kinda serious. I think its due being sx, honestly.

    edit. I stopped using real humans in my avatrs to discourage ppl from thinking anything I do has sexual connotations.
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    reckless, toying, hungry
    irresponsibly provocative
    crash and burn

    themes:
    - figure sx-first's sexual orientation to be all things, every thing.
    - "what makes you tick" questions are posed too early on for comfort. invasive.
    - that sx require the low to ascend the high could be viewed as wasteful of energy and resources. parasitic.

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