The forum consensus for your type seems to be between SEI and IEI. Even though I watched one of your early videos a couple years ago, I haven't voiced an opinion yet because I have a really hard time "seeing" male SEIs, and male IEIs can be chameleons. So, I can't really say, from VI, which type you might be.
However, in my experience here, people who have a hard time settling on one type seem to usually be xxxp. That could be either SEI or IEI, but one telling comment by you was your exhilaration about being typed ESE. "Finally, another opinion!". That speaks to valuing Ne, and so points, in my opinion, to you being SEI.
OK, I just watched a few minutes of your latest video, and I'd type you by VI as an LII who is very much in touch with their softer side, so maybe SEI?. Definitely Alpha, though.
My problem with seeing male SEIs is that they are my Conflictor and I have a really hard time identifying them and perceiving their values and how those values express themselves in VI. It's like I can stare straight at them and not see them. LIIs, on the other hand, I can see fairly well. I'm not saying you are LII, because your Fe is off the charts for an LII. I'm only saying that I think you are Alpha.