ESIs who think marriage is gay, stupid, and should be abolished

[Adam Strange]

Well if they have nothing to lose from not being married, of course they prefer not to. The point is with most Te dominants you will have a lot to lose since they use the external laws as basis for our behavior. Basically a non-married Te dominant would think it's fine to go and have sex with other men or women whereas a married one would think it's forbidden.

I completely agree with that, @FDG. It is exactly how I think and how I operate.

When I was married, I didn't consider other women. Not for a split second, even though there were some pretty direct offers. Cheating just was not on the table of options.

OTOH, when I was dating, I was non-exclusive and told the women that. Just to be clear.

Gamma. The Contract Quadrant.

[nanashi]

I completely agree with that, @FDG. It is exactly how I think and how I operate.

When I was married, I didn't consider other women. Not for a split second, even though there were some pretty direct offers. Cheating just was not on the table of options.

OTOH, when I was dating, I was non-exclusive and told the women that. Just to be clear.

Gamma. The Contract Quadrant.

I think this might vary wildly in details of contract. But contract, yes

[Muira]

I completely agree with that, @FDG. It is exactly how I think and how I operate.

When I was married, I didn't consider other women. Not for a split second, even though there were some pretty direct offers. Cheating just was not on the table of options.

OTOH, when I was dating, I was non-exclusive and told the women that. Just to be clear.

Gamma. The Contract Quadrant.

Someone with actual reasoning I can actually understand.