There is a good chance that you won't have a problem with a male ESI for this reason. My father is SLI and I married an SLI, and there just wasn't any correspondence in the bedroom.
Now, the two of them do share a sociotype, so they were both good at saving, had conservative values while being liberals, and were both concerned with their health and the wellness of the family. Some of my frustrations with my father were repeated with my ex-wife, but those problems had more to do with Supervision than anything else. Aside from that, they were different people.