For me, the most prominently attractive quality is a sort of transparent frankness that evokes trust, but I don't think my own recognition of the je ne sais quoi that I speak of would be universal or anything. Mb when I'm attracted to someone I project it idk lol
But it's a specific feeling... literal obliviousness (uh mb autism-ish or sth), not aw shucks politician or owning the libs type frank honesty
I feel like I'm talking bs and making no sense, but I'm lazy here u go