Attract:
Funny
Kindness & smiles without expecting anything back
Practical knowledge & skills
Calls my bullshit but with tact and style
Genuine interest in other people
Puts interests of their relatives on the same level as theirs
Equanimity & reliableness
Nonviolent communication
Takes care of themselves & grounded
Vulnerability & able to talk about their feelings
Sense of adventure & independent
Not afraid to "push back" when I'm too pushy
Repel:
Too principled
Too emotional
Doesn't know how and when to relax
Invasive physical contact
Know-it-alls
No sense of reciprocity, takes but never gives
Aloofness, standoffishness, unresponsiveness, too many boundaries
Dependency on others to solve their problems
Talking behind my back to make themselves feel better
Ambivalence(hot and cold, not knowing what one wants)
Aggressiveness & Anger issues
Victim mentality
People pleasers
Controlling and power hungry people
Impulsive and impatient people; good things come to those who wait
Dishonesty and liars
People who agress those who don't conform to their ideologies
People who can't connect the dots or become paranoid