Dating my conflictors
How easy is it to spot activators?
Since activators are way easier for us to come into contact with than duals, and since they are mirrors of our duals, you can think of its usefulness by yourself. Anyway, what's your experience with finding activators and interacting with them on a daily basis?
Personally, I notice duals much more than activators as I am extremely Se-seeking. Maybe it is different for those with strong contact subtypes.
I'm better at noticing the guys, though, because LSIs and SLEs are more stereotypically masculine types.
My ESI-Se mom is married to my ILI dad. They're a great match and balance each other out very well.