Most Common ITR in DV/Abusive Relationships? [TRIGGER WARNING]

[sbbds]

I destroyed that notion years ago...

actually "ESIs as a type not likely to be violent" was never really a notion aside from, just every now and then, somebody (typically a newcomer) who doesn't know North from South and actually takes the quadra values mythology seriously comes out of the woodwork with it.

Idea that betas are only violent is born out of a one typology closed mindset echoing the quadra values mythology.

quadra values is a relic of the past. just about nobody uses it anymore (even if they say they do), which kind of makes your 'notion' sound, well, obsolete...

You say this, yet your username is Kill4Me, you talk like a gangster, and your avatar is of iced up grillz.

[calm]

Chris Brown is an SEE and Rihanna is an ESI.
When I learned that it became easy to see how a typical Mirror argument blow up turned physical that way.
I began to notice a trend of Se valuing mirrors getting physical when fighting but especially base and creative Se.

[Shytan]

Chris Brown is an SEE and Rihanna is an ESI.
When I learned that it became easy to see how a typical Mirror argument blow up turned physical that way.
I began to notice a trend of Se valuing mirrors getting physical when fighting but especially base and creative Se.

Ive had two boyfriends who are my mirrors, IEE, and both have gotten physically violent with me when they got really drunk.

[kingslayer]

Ive had two boyfriends who are my mirrors, IEE, and both have gotten physically violent with me when they got really drunk.

I actually know an IEE who was highly abusive to his ex when they were dating and still tries stalking her and texting her and all this weird controlling shit even though they've been broken up for a year now..

[Dr PissBender]

I actually know an IEE who was highly abusive to his ex when they were dating and still tries stalking her and texting her and all this weird controlling shit even though they've been broken up for a year now..

As we have said before, Fi creative can make hell of a sociopath.

[calm]

As we have said before, Fi creative can make hell of a sociopath.

Please enlighten me on this

[Dr PissBender]

Please enlighten me on this

Fi creative can help you get closer to people, it's about the psychological distance. I have NO PROBLEM in getting someone to like me really fast. If I have shitty intentions, I can have people open up real fast and be vulnerable to me. I think Fi creative is there to have both SEE's and IEE's penetrate through the Fe polr walls ILI's and SLI's have.

[Shytan]

I actually know an IEE who was highly abusive to his ex when they were dating and still tries stalking her and texting her and all this weird controlling shit even though they've been broken up for a year now..

I read about IEEs finding it hard to get over relationships long after they ended because they are subconsciously built to handle the on-off nature of SLIs bc apparently the SLI-IEE relationship is a very I’m-pulling-away-but-we’re-still-together on-off kind of relationship.
I’ve experienced the same with an SLI who thought we were still dating yet we hadn’t talked in over a month and I had assumed he was disinterested and moved on (we weren’t actually dating, but he said we were when he confronted me)
Idk if anyone else has had this with SLIs and IEEs

[Adam Strange]

I read about IEEs finding it hard to get over relationships long after they ended because they are subconsciously built to handle the on-off nature of SLIs bc apparently the SLI-IEE relationship is a very I’m-pulling-away-but-we’re-still-together on-off kind of relationship.
I’ve experienced the same with an SLI who thought we were still dating yet we hadn’t talked in over a month and I had assumed he was disinterested and moved on (we weren’t actually dating, but he said we were when he confronted me)
Idk if anyone else has had this with SLIs and IEEs

@Shytan, IMO, you nailed it. The SLI is always a day late and a mile away but is very, very faithful, while the IEE is like

[Shytan]

@Shytan, IMO, you nailed it. The SLI is always a day late and a mile away but is very, very faithful, while the IEE is like

Do you think IEEs are unfaithful?

[Dr PissBender]

@Shytan, IMO, you nailed it. The SLI is always a day late and a mile away but is very, very faithful, while the IEE is like

I've always been faithful.

[calm]

I actually know an IEE who was highly abusive to his ex when they were dating and still tries stalking her and texting her and all this weird controlling shit even though they've been broken up for a year now..

my IEE neighbor beat her supervisee ESI husband to a pulp on a daily basis and I worry so much about him. Poor guy.

[Dr PissBender]

Ive had two boyfriends who are my mirrors, IEE, and both have gotten physically violent with me when they got really drunk.

I can see this. Se role gets out of hand when highly unhealthy, I attempted to stab some guy with scissors once, and other time i kinda did stab someone but that blade wasn't sharpened, or else i'd have been sent to some mental asylum (i was in high school at the moment).

I have never gotten physical with any ex though, nor any woman. But i've had women get physical with me. One of them being my sister.