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    beta NF mb? I had this experience with IEI (F), where we could be laughing or giggling with each other at one moment or interacting peacefully in the same room for hours just for in the next second (literally) explode in loud and violent shouting and crying, throwing up ridiculous accusations, insults and threats usually due nuances from physical world that she can't tolerate...pretty unrealistic expectations and silly daily things. Sometimes she even got angry due her own mistakes but somehow it was my or someone else fault too.

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    This person seems to be in very unhealthy place.
    Although this is quite insane behavior from her it seems that you didn't adjust well to her atmosphere. Apparently, your responses should have been sincerely tragic if that was what she was fishing. EIE's can not stand being watched while they work also respect or leader and hierarchy.


    BTW EIE and SLI sharing a car




    This case could be EIE and ILI supervision, tough.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Reyne View Post
    She was also constantly talking shit about other coworkers when they were not there, and sometimes she would be openly paranoid about me, saying I probably hated her. I would answer that I actually didn't have much of an opinion about her and she would answer "I'M QUITE SURE YOU'RE BEING FAKE. BUT I DON'T CARE IF ANYBODY HATES ME. CONTINUE HATING ME I DON'T CARE".

    The funny thing is that sometimes she would become very emotional and open about her private life. She told me about a "tragic" love loss. She opened up a lot. The day after I thought "Well, she opened up to me, maybe she doesn't hate me anymore", but she actually became WORSE. Almost like she was punishing me because she opened up to me.
    Sounds like Fi-Dom VS Fi-Polr interaction. I would go for Dominant(DCNH) SLE for the crazy woman. They have the weakest Polr. That would make your relationship either reverse supervision or conflict.

    As @COVID 007 said, she was looking for Fe, like when she was telling you about her loss it was to get a reaction out of you, like "OMG!!! That's soo sad!!!!" and was not at all a sign that she was liking/trusting you. "Merry" quadras often tell about their Fi misfortunes to get a Fe emotional reaction. I think that you not showing any reaction, for example when she was trying to get you to be pissed or whatever just made it worse for you. Not showing emotions is what she meant by "being fake".
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