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    Default Just ended things with my dual, AMA

    Sorry, just wanted attention. Feel free to ignore me. Or help me, idk. I hate emotions.

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    What are the outside influences and or specific personal baggage that one or both of you have accumulated to cause the breakup? I'm assuming that it's not type related and that neither of you is mistyped......

    a.k.a. I/O

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rebelondeck View Post
    What are the outside influences and or specific personal baggage that one or both of you have accumulated to cause the breakup? I'm assuming that it's not type related and that neither of you is mistyped......

    a.k.a. I/O
    What's I/O?
    Honestly not sure why I created this thread.
    There's many. Generally, inability to deal with our lives lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hux View Post
    What's I/O?
    Honestly not sure why I created this thread.
    There's many. Generally, inability to deal with our lives lol.
    I was known as I/O on other sites. And, I cannot comment on zero information other than to say that most people go through break-ups.

    a.k.a. I/O

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    How long were you two together for @Hux ? What did you guys like/dislike about each other?

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    I'm sorry for that...

    Is this the first relationship you've gotten into? What about him/her was different?

    How was it while it lasted? Better times you had? How did you meet him/her?

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    *pat pat*
    Reason is a whore.

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    @GuavaDrunk Thank

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    Aw. He made u a better person on the inside and u made him/her actually leave their house a bit? lol? SLE/IEI duality in action.

    but I think I do improve morally from SLEs in a strange way, I think they make me more ethical and I also make them 'kick ass' more too... it works both ways really to me. I don't view myself as just this moral thing. God knows I don't always know or do the 'right' thing myself anyway dear god no lol.

    Even if things didn't work out between u and this IEI well- there is still hope u will find somebody that works. <3

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    @BandD
    Hmmm...How do you improve morally? Any examples?
    Yeah, aha, we plan to take a nine month break but... I don't do well with waiting. So I'm almost over him It's also because I don't think it'll ever be the same, there's just so much hurt and misunderstandings to allow us to ever fully recover.

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    @Hux

    If you had a big awkward fight where you both hurt each other's feelings a lot then no, something like that its impossible to recover from completely because it creates a deep emotional scar and those you've loved always have the potential to hurt you way more than those who naturally hate you- because a vulnerability and trust was destroyed. It probably won't ever the same, but it also doesn't mean it has to terminate completely. You could still learn how to be friends again. Maybe.

    I guess by improve morally.... I mean, as an IEI I can have a bad habit of avoiding reality and getting lost in a fantasy world. When a SLE or SEE is around tho it makes me want to show up and actually face the harsh real world lol. It's actually pretty immoral to just kind of stay in a fantasy world, I have tried to justify this before by realizing and saying its only a fantasy but still... you don't really grow that way.

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    @BandD
    I wouldn't call it a big awkward fight. It's just a series of fights that added to the load, and at the end he said some extremely unpleasant things I doubt I can forget. For him, I think it's just a matter of viewing all these in another way, being less attached and empathetic. And it won't work, especially when what I love about him is his empathy.
    But I agree. Enemies can never have the same potential of hurting us.
    About terminating completely: It'll certainly be nice to keep in touch, but both of us will def be awkward, haha. Plus you never know if hidden feelings arise, one of us gets a new person, etcetera. Yeah, definitely awkward.

    So living in a fantasy is immoral because you don't grow that way? Hm, that's certainly an unusual way of saying it. Not exactly the conventional meaning of "moral" either.

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    @Hux

    This is probably not that helpful but... as an IEI I know I can say really hurtful and shocking things to others at times. My feelings are easily hurt... but I also easily hurt others' feelings. (I'm a DPS class who wants to be a healer kind of) I don't actually mean it at the time even if it seems like I do. (that's kind of a cliche and dumb thing to say but its true idk) I know that's probably not that helpful.... but uhhhh. I hope you two make up more. <3

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    Sorry to hear that.
    What was him like at his worst?

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