@Lord Pixel, verbal insults don’t really bother me, I think, but my PoLR is hit if I feel what I’m doing is being evaluated, and I have to pay attention to what I’m doing and what I’m saying, for instance in a presentation or interview.
SLEs are often stressful to deal with because they tend to act as if they’re always watching for a reaction, or waiting to instigate one, and I feel I have to defend myself from this.