Quote Originally Posted by Accipiter View Post
I've found three great bars that have the demographics that are perfect for me
Girls in bars mb not what you'd want. Types are interesting for long relations, while those girls has generally not serious attitudes.

Visit other places which you like. Where you feel good there. Concentrate on your pleasant state of harmony and then seek women with similar state near you. Such you'll find a similar soul. Which may also came there to meet you.

Don't overesteemate your typing skills to understand types correctly, especially quickly and of unknown people. Choose by friendly feelings - people which inspire this in you irrationally. And then by feelings of positive inspiration (instead of feelings of doubts in yourself and being tired) when you communicate closer with them. This may help to find good IR pair better, than if you'd tried to suppose types directly. Even your own type is questionable.

> I'm uncomfortable trying to make friends at a bar after drinking

while you should be in comfortable state to find a pair comfortable for you

You may meet a good girl in any among public places. Or be connected by other ways. Concentrate on your good state and this leads you to what you want.