I don't know. I'm just glad they're interested in boring old me. I can't talk for the SEE's perspective but I am guarded if only because I imagine that the more I reveal, the less I have to offer. If I have something pleasant to offer, great. If I have a flaw to share, then I am being emotionally vulnerable and perhaps this gesture is appreciated from a conqueror's point of view. Maybe the joy for them is in breaking down the walls of this highly skeptical person, getting them to trust you, and once they have figured out everything about that person, spit him out and look for a different meal? Even if they lose interest, at least it would be exciting for both parties for a short while.