Let's be honest, this "conservative" and "traditional" woman just came here to validate her self typing and she got triggered and exposed her true passive aggressive colours when it didn't go her way.
Life hack - if you don't want people to give their typing of you, don't make a type me thread.
i think you're either lsi or esi. they're easy to confuse bc of the role function, so it would help if you read fi vs fe valuing threads. it's really easy to convince yourself that you relate to a certain characteristic, esp. with information aspects, so i'd focus on how you act when you're comfortable with close friends.
also to be fair i think people of any type can be stupid or mislead esp. in personality theory and there are a lot of factors in a person's experience that might make them passive-aggressive outside of socionics.