Does Se PoLR hold EII back from talking action?

[Lord Pixel]

How would you respond to your plans being changed or disrupted @Lord Pixel ? Would you say that you can easily and smoothly adapt? I mean, you guys are IJ types too. Of course if there’s nothing you can do about it then you just have to.

I’m speaking from experience with my ex lol as he did not like it and complained. He would not budge at times when “pushed”. And several other EIIs I’ve known have been kind of controlling and pushy, backed up with “principles”. I really don’t think that xII are incapable of pushing people or taking control of their own lives. That would be like saying Fi polrs are incapable of eliciting attachment from people or something.

I’ll read the rest of your post soon as it looks good.

Well you got a point with the plans being changed. With that yea I don't like spontaneously change plans as much as an EP would. So with that flow no I don't go with as much. BUT when someone decides to take charge or something, or there's some leader in the group or everyone in the group is doing something, or someone is really pushy and aggressive it's not easy for me to fight against it and I just end up going with that flow 9 times out of 10.