This isn't exactly a conversation, but it is an interaction.
My relationship with an ESI-Fi is doing a slow-motion crash and burn, even though its platonic. This is bothering me a lot.
This lesbian ESI-Se who I think is almost perfect has helped me a bit in texting the ESI-Fi (so the ESI-Fi won't be shocked by the natural differences between an ESI whom she understands, and an LIE who seems like a space alien) and she's seen her picture, but she thinks the relationship is doomed and advised me to date someone else.
Well, I thought. I have someone in mind, but I'm not a girl.
Man, the ESI-Fi just isn't ready for a relationship, and I'm feeling sorry for what might have been. I did something that I never would normally do; I took a screenshot of a naked porn actress who looks almost exactly like her, and now it's on my phone's picture gallery. I've been meaning to delete it to restore my self-pride, but I haven't yet.
Yesterday, I was going to show the ESI-Se pictures of my place in the country to point out where she can have a bonfire for her birthday party, and we were both looking at my phone when the gallery came up with the tiny picture of the naked porn star amongst the scenery pics. It's exactly the kind of picture that a guy might take of a beautiful woman whom he's just had sex with. She's sitting there looking nice and warm and Fi introspective.
Shit, I thought. I tilted the phone away from her and cleared my throat and said "Wait a minute. Let me find it." But I'm pretty sure she saw it. She may have mistaken it for a picture of the ESI-Fi, since they look almost identical.
After I found the right pictures, I handed her the keys to the place and she thanked me. Then she looked at me and made a quick phone call to a male friend of hers.
Now, I don't care if she has sex with women, but I'm insanely jealous of the fact that she's hanging out with guys. I try to be cool about this, but she's smart and a feeler and I think it's prudent to assume that she knows how I feel about her and how I feel about her with other men.
So now I'm wondering if we were testing each other? "Hey, do you like me? Am I the most important person in your life, or don't you care that I might be seeing someone else?