ESI/LIE Conversations

[myresearch]

LIE:
Hi, (ESI's name here).
Are you up for some tacos at Tmaz Taqueria in an hour or two? My treat.

ESI:
Please consider learning how to plan ahead a little further.

LIE:
Is that a "No"?
I haven't eaten yet.

ESI:
Or put another way, the chances of me showing up with an hours notice is zero to negative zero.
That is a no

LIE:
How about tomorrow for dinner? The taco place is closed, but Seva is open.

ESI:
You pretty much called me fat, which pretty much earned you a spot on the permanent poop list.

LIE:
What?
You're not fat.
I could not have called you fat because I don't believe you are fat, and I never lie. Not lying makes my life easier.

ESI:
You're the one that wins against the odds. Consider finding another girl who is more physically to your liking.


-Adam: Man, this woman is a hard sell.

In this particular conversation, ESI definitely does not sound like an ESI or Ne-polr. If I had to type this person solely based on this conversation, I would say that this person is IEE. She uses wordy sentences, explains herself by describing things using another form, speaks alternatively, communicates indirectly, refrains from directly saying no and uses soft guilt trip/whip combo(you called me fat, permanent poop list).

[Adam Strange]

In this particular conversation, ESI definitely does not sound like an ESI or Ne-polr. If I had to type this person solely based on this conversation, I would say that this person is IEE. She uses wordy sentences, explains herself by describing things using another form, speaks alternatively, communicates indirectly, refrains from directly saying no and uses soft guilt trip/whip combo(you called me fat, permanent poop list).

@myresearch, this is very insightful. The woman VI's like an ESI and I'm pretty sure she is an ESI-Se e6, but I'd call her Avoidant (she's 42 and never been married) and her father is SLI. She has a thing for SLI's (her Daddy is one), but she also showed me a picture of the only guy she ever considered marrying, and he was a clear ILI. I know a few female IEE's, and she's not at all similar to them.

But it is interesting that you said she sounds like an IEE. I imagine that her father has strongly influenced her. And not in a good way.

And, of course, it is also possible that I have mis-typed everyone related to this clusterfuck.