Originally Posted by
brand
Weird means the judger dislikes your differences due to their inability to relate to the weird qualities and the effort not being worth it to them. It must be your fault or else it is theirs, so an accusation is needed.
Calling you a weirdo is stating they believe they can get supporters to label you as weird among the people who matter in their social context.
A fun weirdo is support label from another outcast that happens to like your deviation from the commonly expected behaviour in the social contexts that matter to them.
It is never about you or reality, really. It is them.