Quote Originally Posted by Lord Pixel View Post
I always thought Se liked rough and Si liked soft.

Like Se likes the battle of wills.

and Si likes the sensations of touch.

So one was raunchy and one was sensual.

Maybe my brain is broken but I do not understand the appeal of rough play, slapping and chocking etc etc. It just sounds/looks painful.

I'm Si valuing so make what you will with that.
It’s not about the pain itself but the psychic and emotional vulnerability and vividiry pain causes.